The good chilled out Friends I’ve experienced in my life


Hanging out at Vivo City Rooftop

Hanging out at Vivo City Rooftop

A group of friends and I had a small hangout session after at Vivo after work.

Good chilled out friends are not easy to come by. I’ve met a lot of friends that come and go, countless of them at parties and events, but very few that stays and understands me. Im glad to have find a small group of friends that enjoys the simple things in life.

Its not just about that though. Making the best out of your time with people you care about matters. The best of part of having to be with good people is you learn to appreciate the good times in life.

Preparing for NS

How we are Preparing for NS

When you’re with good friends, you make the best of what you have and have fun no matter what the situation is in.

As the saying goes,

Make the best of what you got, when live gives you lemons, you make lemonades.

I can say we did unnatural things at some point of time, like going to ‘Toys R Us‘ and submerge ourselves into a pool of toys, camwhore with superhero masks and play around with rubber balls and longboards.

I’ve been learning to pick up the pieces that fits into my life of appreciating these moments, break free from trying to compose my ‘mature’ self for a while, let loose and be a kid again.

I don’t know if you feel the same as I, maybe the way you act with your siblings compared to a group of friends or someone you just met, the feeling is different.

You might be out with a group of friends doing what all adults should be doing, going shopping or having a dinner at some restaurant, having to look at the expensive clothes you’re going to plan to wear at the nightlife over in Clarke Quay,


You could just chill out with some good friends, have some takeaway food from your nearby hawker centre, chill out at a mall’s rooftop, and pretend you have superpowers.

I’m glad to have such friends. I don’t have to feel so bad about not behaving in a certain manner, and learnt to accept what he/she is doing for that matter, and purely okay with being our nerdiest selves, being okay with a true self, understand each other at our lowest and better self.

This is one of the few group of friends I’ve enjoyed my life with. Don’t be mistaken, there’s other groups of friends I do enjoy hanging out with too who is also chilled out and laid back.

What are your thoughts on this? Have you had a group of chilled out friends? What was your experience like?


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Dear Long Forgotten, but not in the heart.

The days dwell longer,
the feelings grow stronger
on days it felt like pain,
You’re like the rainbow after a heavy rain.

A connection like no other,
you invited me over
to so many special occasions
recalled the seasons

I hate that guy,
who played and made you cry,
the disappointing look in your face,
i see you trying to pull a weak rage.

A move i made
though i know friendship was at stake
” i like you” i said,
and you said , let’s be friends instead.

We separated when I confessed,
That deep feeling in my chest,
We knew each other for years,
I recalled my bed was in rare tears.

The story i thought was like a fairytale
how much i heard those stories that fail,
but how am I to know if i keep avoiding,
Thought it might work if i keep trying.

Reading this meant that I’m not over you,
because life back then was so true,
giving in to you, i can’t blame who,
you’re just being honest, about it too.

I put my heart rest, where its at,
recall the feeling I once have had
take it as a lesson to learn
that in life, we’re our own prison.

If we hold on to something
prepare to have nothing
and stand up for the new things
in life that possibility brings.

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